February 18,2022
THE sunset scene is always pleasing in nature. Everywhere in the world, people love it. Some places of the world are renowned for their especially unique view of their sunset views. Dear Readers, you will think I am going to compose a sunset view of somewhere in my surroundings. Please, be patient and read my short article since I will mention the ones whose lives are ugly indeed.
It is natural but everyone will definitely meet one day in great bitterness. When we meet it, can we able to withstand the very horrible experiences? We know the people who step into their 60s are aged ones. Some of their physical appearances and mental appearances become rather frail. However, they usually think as they have had many experiences in their lives and they know and understand everything. It is somewhat right but they have not been really ready to face the infirmity yet. When one gets old, he must prepare everything for his future days so that he will not tremble when he or she meets the difficulties in future. First, we will get fewer and fewer companions.
The people who are older than us have already passed away. Those who are the same age as us are also encountering their difficulties by themselves. Moreover, those who are younger than us are also busy with jobs. Some wives or husbands might have left the family earlier than the respective person. At such moment, the only companions for us will be the lonely days and nights. Therefore, what we have to do is we have to try to be able to live alone at home. Then, we will encounter again a thing in which we get gradually neglected by our surroundings. How famous or successful one has been before, when one gets old, one becomes an ordinary old man or woman. Besides, we have to practice to be able to stay peacefully in one corner of the house alone.
The ceremonies held with all friends will get less and less. What is more, we have to be able to try to tolerate those ceremonies happily held by the younger people and keep our mind not to blame them for holding. Moreover, another harm is that we might fall somewhere and one of our bones might get broken. Our coronary arteries might be blocked. Our memories might be weak. Various types of cancer might be greeting us in any way. In place of companions before, the diseases now become new companions. Do not be shallow in your thoughts that you are still steadfast and healthy.
It will be a major task to loosen our mind a little by doing some able exercises. Furthermore, we must think in advance that we will have to pass our remaining life on bed. It can be said that we resume our lives in which our moms first brought us to bed. Finally, we got there (in bed) after we have experienced a variety of happiness and all kinds of difficulties throughout our whole life. In addition, we have to accept the nursing of the others which would not be identical to our moms’ nursing.
We will have to accept the situation in which we were brought up under the looking after of our moms when we came to the world but it will not be certain that the people who will nurse us are our children or our close relatives when we are about to leave that world. If so, it will not be kind and warm as much as our moms did. The most possible situation will be that we will meet those who are wearing smiles on their faces but cursing in their mind. However, it is the situation we will have to thank them who are nursing us pretending we know nothing.
Another unpleasant situation will also be met. This time, they will be the deceives who might lie to the people of infirmity guessing they own extra saved money for their ageing days by cheating with phone calls or letters saying about the medicine that can cure every kind of disease or something done in keeping with the astrologer’s advice. Therefore, we will have to seize our nest egg for old age firmly and with great care. Finally, all the lights get reduced in the life of sunset of a man. Even walking will be difficult day after day. As soon as we are in our 60s, we should prepare to abandon many things in life. We have to value those who have been good to us for ages. We have to try to feel our lives with good senses. It is also necessary not to argue with anyone.
We have to stay with arguing even with our children and grandchildren. The most important thing is not to be self-arrogant. Being old and infirmity must be accepted. We should take care of in talking that seems to be giving an order. If possible, it will be best we should avoid the words that will hurt others. We should prepare to pass the remaining days lightly and with ease.
